Third
of five parts ...
The
funeral pirate
by Troy
Eggleston
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I sit pressed up against my only window, looking out upon the
world.
Everything seems slow outside. Slow to resolve.
Slow to involve. It makes me curious about momentum. The way things,
things such as actual truth and reason, linger far behind their
initial glimpse. How it may take years to act upon what has long
been realized as necessary.
All of the lethargic dreamers, dreaming of how they
should do this or could do that. Well, we all should and perhaps
we all could, but most of us never will.
You see, the Buddhists believe that we are born
attached. Attached to all of the lives we experienced prior to
the one in which we are currently living. And that there is purpose
to each
life. Whether or not this purpose is transferred as positive or
negative leverage toward the next life is primarily up to how
we deal with imprints that have been branded into each of our
very beings.
The goal is to slow down this vicious spin cycle
we call existence. To slow it down just enough so that we are
able to correct our stance upon this world, adjusting ourselves
a bit more succinctly toward some source of light, whether it
be a mere glimmer or blinding sun. Our imprints we cannot ignore.
To try and ignore them would surely make one ricochet aimlessly
off of the failures of the past. Thus increasing the spin. Faster
and further forgotten, the one within.
So this is my story. It is a tragic tale, as I have
mentioned before. I am sharing it with you only because I must.
Love and understanding is an imprint for another life. This life,
for me, was to realize suffering. I am curious about momentum
the way an atheist is curious about God. The way a moth stumbles
its wings toward light only to find a false impression of the
sun.
Yet I know how things are supposed to work. Within
my fitful mind, I can still visualize a wrecked sort of harmony,
if you will. But even that image lasts for but a moment. I have
shunned faith. But now I ask you to rebuild yours.
Please ignore my previous ramblings for they had
no direction. Here is where I shall begin. To confess rather than
recollect. This is my story as simplified as I am able to tell
it. It is the truth, despite what you have been taught about possibility.
Take what you will from it, but know that I have tried. However
much my imprint allowed, I have tried.
I was what could be described as a very even-minded
child. I was directly in pace with what was to be expected. I
took my first steps directly in proportion to the national average.
My first words followed in stride. I was by no means temperamental,
but neither was I engaging.
As I grew, all of my accomplishments were ordinary.
I spoke ordinary words. I scored ordinary scores. When I learned
cursive, it too was ordinary without any exaggerated curves. My
size was ordinary. My looks were ordinary. My athleticism was
indeed ordinary as well. My father, despite all the signs of having
created an ordinary child, refused to acknowledge my basic nature.
He stated with fatherly pride that I was exceptionally balanced.
That my lack of any foreseen flaw, coupled with
my lack of any foreseen talent, made me steady.
Our son is steady like Roosevelt was steady,
he would say lifting his chin toward my mother. He has presidential
balance.
It was this presidential balance that got me through
my younger years unaffected, uninspired and undefeated. I began
to wonder why I never laughed that uncontrollable belly laugh
that makes one's eyes tear up as they fall to their knees. I never
anticipated a birthday party or a summer vacation with matched
enthusiasm to the other children.
Why couldnt I feel butterflies floating in
my stomach or feel the overwhelming type of fear that is accompanied
by strange night noises? I never seemed to give way to my emotions.
I was stoic, or balanced, if you prefer positive spins. That is
until the accident occurred. It was my definitive accident.
It inevitably carved a new direction in my life,
from which I have since been unable to deviate.
Read parts one
and two of "The
funeral pirate."